Your Love For Me is uniquely respecting me - and should inspire your
 Love for others, to be respecting others uniquely as these are  (LFM)

                                                      3 October 2008
                                                  {HRI 20081003-V1.1}

                                                        (Version 1.1
                                                      on 15 Oct 2008)

                                                  (inspired by Mieke,
                                                  initiated by Meike)*


Your Love for me, is created by you for me (or about me, you might
 feel it, as 'love about me') - so it has a very peculiar and unique
 quality being created by you FOR ME or about me,

      just as also my Love for you or about you, is very uniquely for
      or about you - its quality is specially for you and about you
      individually.

            Love, as you know, has to do with respect - respect is,
            precisely to look at or sense, who and what someone is,
            
            Love does look at who and what you are, at who and what
            I am.

                  Your actual, but generally quite oppressed abilities
                  in that respect,
                   
                  to sense and feel and know and remember - are very
                  far beyond and exceeding, what you are "allowed" and
                  are taught "are your abilities."

                  And indeed, despite what is written in the history
                  books about me or you, having died, or in general,
                  about ancestors in various religious texts,

                  neither am I dead, nor are you dead.

                  We live on...

                        as sung so beautifully by Celine Dion for
                        the movie 'Titanic' - the song I might presume
                        rightly you know by that part of its lyrics:

                       'We live on...'


'

So when you create your Love for me

      - because you become aware of me again and feel me again
       
            (though I, like you, have died many life times, we are not
             only alive, but living a life time, again),
         
        or whenever you were aware of me and felt me, in any past when
        you created (felt or remembered) your Love for me -

 you DON'T THEN give that very specific and unique Love that you feel
 for or about me, to another,

            BECAUSE THAT would and it indeed does violate the RESPECT
            that is a major part of any true, actual Love:

            It is my love for you and your love for me, which is a
            very specific and unique Love, specifically for you,
            respecting you, and from you with respect to and for me,

                  and my Love for you certainly would break down, if
                  you give it, my Energy of my Love for you,

                        in an extreme case for instance,

                  to a Criminal Mind,

                        for which my Love for you is not designed at
                        all, nor is your Love for me created by you
                        for addressing nor has it the quality with
                        which to address Criminal Minds,

                  or to a lackey of a Criminal Mind,

      that would be a great distortion of and in fact hampering or
      breaking my Love for you, and your Love for me, too,

      because it is not your Love for another, nor is it my Love for
      for another.

'

You can however (and you do) use my specific and unique Love for you
 - and your specific and unique Love for me - to inspire you,
  
 and to create your specific and unique Love for another and for many
 others too, and to receive the specific and unique Love of others for
 you, *(1)(2)(3)

      much like you might choose to play music composed by me, while
      you are engaged in pleasant conversation or activity with others
      who equally appreciate my music.

            The idea, that "you can Love only one person," *(6) stems
            entirely from Criminal Minds:

                  In that case, if such a Criminal Mind has tricked
                  you into Loving (into creating and giving your Love
                  Energy to) him or her

                       (who can not really be Loved, at all, though,

                        not ever, in fact, so insidious and so wholly
                        irreparable is the mutilation inflicted in
                        distant past lives with unimaginable methods,
                        on such a soul),

                  then he or she 'has made it' - has "succeeded" in
                  captivating you, in securing your Energy for him or
                  her - when you have agreed, that "you can or you
                  must, love only one person" (ideas to that effect).

                        Similarly, a Criminal Mind will convince you,
                        that "You must live in (you must be aware only
                        of) the present." (Oprah Winfrey, Eckhardt
                        Tolle, "The Power of Now.")

                        Then he or she 'has made it,' has made you
                        blind to his or her past and future intentions
                        and activities towards you and others.

                              Then "you can live with Criminal Minds,"
                              being the goal of various Hindu and
                              Buddhist gurus, and of the current
                              Secretary General of the United Nations
                              Organization,

                              which - living with Criminal Minds - is
                              however impossible, in fact, because
                              they will ruin your life in any (other)
                              way,

                              UNLESS they are respected as they are,
                              which has given rise to various HRI's
                              on that subject, and to the HRI 'Rights
                              of Criminal Minds.' *(nn)

'

You DON'T let Criminal Minds tell you, that "I am dead," that "I do
 not exist anymore, 'because I have died'." I am a soul, you know,
 just as you are too.

'

This also applies to religious people: You may sense my existence and
 my Love and Compassion for you, you feel my Golden Strength or
 Fiercely Blue Life Energy of Beauty, Truth and Love.

 Which then may result in you creating your Love for me, which is
 specific and unique Love, to me.

 Now you DON'T then go and give THAT Love to Jesus Christ, or,

 conversely, because you sense someone's great Compassion and Love for
 you coming towards you or surrounding you,

      that you are unable to identify correctly,

 you then DON'T assume, that "I am Jesus Christ"

      - I am not Jesus Christ, there is only one Jesus Christ and I am
        not him.

            He is very different from me, though similar in certain
            aspects that are culturally determined, *(4) you can and
            should appreciate Jesus Christ for what and who he was and
            actually is (and not "appreciate" him for some mythical
            fairy tales).  *(5)

 But you go and appreciate and feel me and acknowledge my existence,
 and thus respect me, for what I am and who I am.  *(4)

'

Koos Nolst Trenite 'Cause Trinity'
human rights philosopher and poet

                                            'God gave Solomon wisdom
                                              and very great insight,
                                      and a breadth of understanding
                                                      as measureless
                                         as the sand on the seashore.'

                                                        1 Kings 4:29

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Textnote:

(*)   Mieke very naturally created and showed her Love for me as
      uniquely for me, so all was fine: She created and showed her
      Love for others as was her Love for others.

      This was sharply contrasted by Meike, who experienced a strong
      Love for me, when she saw me, and talked with me, but that she
      then, after a while and away from me, directed at someone else
      whom she considered 'she should love,' but did not tell me
      about.
      It felt like a drain and distortion, that hampered the overall
      creation of my pure Love, and that prompted me to diminish my
      Love flowing to her, as it was being mis-used, mis-represented,
      mis-assigned, and thus made Ugly, by her not keeping it open and
      honest as my Love is intended.
'

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Footnotes:

(1) 'Genuine Art - Producing It, Recognizing It'  (GA-PITRIT)
      {HRI 20021220}
       (20 Dec 2002)
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.europe/msg/dc1388ffc08294fb

(2) 'Famous American Life Energy Vampires - Unsuspected Of Destroying
      Your Emotional Integrity' (FALEV)
      {HRI 20031110-V3.7}
       (10 November 2003 - Version 3.7 on 9 Jan 2007)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.california/msg/ad64acd8f4990726

(3)  'ABBA's Famous Life Energy Vampire, Agnetha'
      (Addition to 'Famous American Life Energy Vampires - Unsuspected
      Of Destroying Your Emotional Integrity')
      {HRI 20031110-V3.7-A1-V2.0}
       (10 November 2008 - Addition 1, Version 2.0 on 10 July 2008)
http://groups.google.com/group/sci.military.naval/msg/a0f3f3859d9f549e

(4)  'Three Anecdotes about Koos Nolst Trenite - Intending others
      to be decent to each other - What is 'Zero Tolerance' actually'
      {HRI 20060305-V2.3}  (ZTA)
       (5 March 2006 - Issued 7 Dec 2007 - Version 2.3 on 30 May 2008)
http://groups.google.com/group/sci.military.naval/msg/e60b09110e1ad5d6

(5)  'Facing Life: Jesus Christ Never Was A Leader, And Never Will Be
      - Nor Does He Want To Be One'  (JCNL)
      {HRI 20081005-V2.3}
       (5 October 2008 - Version 2.3 on 7 Oct 2008)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.religion.islam/msg/7b389b30e8397411

(6)  'What is Love, and Three Parts of Love'  (WIL)
      {HRI 20080428-V2.1}
       (28 April 2008 - Version 2.1 on 9 June 2008)
http://groups.google.com/group/sci.military.naval/msg/3b9bc7aec31c8364

(nn) (as indicated)

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References:

     (as applicable)

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Issue Note:
     
     Version 1.0 of this HRI was not publicly issued.

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