It's one year ago today since Sand died.

I've been trying to think of something to say to mark the occasion, 
something that would've made her smile, something witty and profound and 
literary and beautiful.  But i can't think of anything.  All i can say is 
that i still love her, i still miss her, and i still think about her every 
day.

I've said these things before, i know, and i shall keep on saying them. 
Because they're true - and they're /mine/.  And they will have to do, 
because that's all i got.

Perhaps this is a strange thing to say given she's, y'know, dead and all, 
but i hope she's ok, i really do.  I don't really know what i mean by that, 
but that's what i want to say, that's what i've been thinking.  I hope she's 
ok.  I hope everyone else is ok, as well.



Tim

one of our monkfish is missing wrote:
> It's one year ago today since Sand died.
> 
> I've been trying to think of something to say to mark the occasion, 
> something that would've made her smile, something witty and profound and 
> literary and beautiful.  But i can't think of anything.  All i can say 
> is that i still love her, i still miss her, and i still think about her 
> every day.
> 
> I've said these things before, i know, and i shall keep on saying them. 
> Because they're true - and they're /mine/.  And they will have to do, 
> because that's all i got.
> 
> Perhaps this is a strange thing to say given she's, y'know, dead and 
> all, but i hope she's ok, i really do.  I don't really know what i mean 
> by that, but that's what i want to say, that's what i've been thinking.  
> I hope she's ok.  I hope everyone else is ok, as well.
> 
> 
> 
> Tim

don't forget to look after yourself today.  don't neglect yourself.

"one of our monkfish is missing"  wrote in message 
news:MnoIk.52$qt6.38@newsfe28.ams2...
> It's one year ago today since Sand died.
>
> I've been trying to think of something to say to mark the occasion, 
> something that would've made her smile, something witty and profound and 
> literary and beautiful.  But i can't think of anything.  All i can say is 
> that i still love her, i still miss her, and i still think about her every 
> day.
>
> I've said these things before, i know, and i shall keep on saying them. 
> Because they're true - and they're /mine/.  And they will have to do, 
> because that's all i got.
>
> Perhaps this is a strange thing to say given she's, y'know, dead and all, 
> but i hope she's ok, i really do.  I don't really know what i mean by 
> that, but that's what i want to say, that's what i've been thinking.  I 
> hope she's ok.  I hope everyone else is ok, as well.

I hope that she is ok too, if she is indeed anywhere still.  I think I know 
what you mean anyway.

I can't think of anything to add really. Just to echo what you've said about 
still missing her, still loving her.

It was Friday that I thought would be the hardest, going by a year to the 
day that she died rather than the date.  One year gone already :(
I look through old photos and I can still feel things the same as they were 
when she was around. I mean that I don't feel like she's gone sometimes.

I spent years worrying about the time when she might or would be gone.  It 
just seems as unreal now that it has actually happened as it felt unreal one 
year ago.

Rest easy Sand.

On Sun, 2008-10-12 at 16:06 +0100, one of our monkfish is missing wrote:

> Perhaps this is a strange thing to say given she's, y'know, dead and all, 
> but i hope she's ok, i really do.  I don't really know what i mean by that, 
> but that's what i want to say, that's what i've been thinking.  I hope she's 
> ok.  I hope everyone else is ok, as well.

Not strange at all, why should it be?

For what it's worth I'm sure she is ok. I had the strong feeling at her
funeral that she will get a good reception in the world to come where
her mind will no longer be troubled and all the good she did will come
to light.

I still remember the song they played at the end of the funeral service
- one of the versions of "Don't weep at my grave, I'm not there, I
didn't die". In a real sense I believe that is true. And I don't think
that's just wishful thinking.

take care,

Fergus

one of our monkfish is missing wrote:
> It's one year ago today since Sand died.
>
> I've been trying to think of something to say to mark the occasion,
> something that would've made her smile, something witty and profound
> and literary and beautiful.  But i can't think of anything.  All i
> can say is that i still love her, i still miss her, and i still think
> about her every day.
>
> I've said these things before, i know, and i shall keep on saying
> them. Because they're true - and they're /mine/.  And they will have
> to do, because that's all i got.
>
> Perhaps this is a strange thing to say given she's, y'know, dead and
> all, but i hope she's ok, i really do.  I don't really know what i
> mean by that, but that's what i want to say, that's what i've been
> thinking.  I hope she's ok.  I hope everyone else is ok, as well.
>

((((((((((monk)))))))))))))

i'm so sorry for your pain.  :(

~cindy

On Sun, 12 Oct 2008 16:06:11 +0100, one of our monkfish is missing wrote:

> It's one year ago today since Sand died.
> 
> I've been trying to think of something to say to mark the occasion, 
> something that would've made her smile, something witty and profound and 
> literary and beautiful.  But i can't think of anything.  All i can say is 
> that i still love her, i still miss her, and i still think about her every 
> day.
> 
> I've said these things before, i know, and i shall keep on saying them. 
> Because they're true - and they're /mine/.  And they will have to do, 
> because that's all i got.
> 
> Perhaps this is a strange thing to say given she's, y'know, dead and all, 
> but i hope she's ok, i really do.  I don't really know what i mean by that, 
> but that's what i want to say, that's what i've been thinking.  I hope she's 
> ok.  I hope everyone else is ok, as well.
> 
> Tim

Nothing strange about it at all. You had a deep and profound love for her,
and her memory will never fade for you. I think you still draw a lot of
strength from that relationship.. even today.

-- 
"You heartless bitch.  I hope you die of a horrible wasting disease that
ruins your looks and your bank balance in equal measure."
Rowland McDonnell - Mysogyny 2 - 23 Jan 08

It is a pity she has gone, if she really has.

Bev

On Wed, 2008-10-15 at 11:18 -0700, nathansmith255@googlemail.com wrote:
>  if she really has.
> 

What do you mean by that?

Fergus

Fergus  wrote:

> nathansmith255@googlemail.com wrote:
> >  if she really has.
> 
> What do you mean by that?

Who can tell?

He's either being cynical or mystical about it, I reckon.

Rowland.

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